Love always asks, "What is best for the other person?" Dr. Stanley shows that love originates with God and that sending Jesus to die for mankind was the greatest display of His care for each soul. Learn that love is like many other things in life—the more you give, the more you receive.
Sermon Outline
Gifts are usually a source of joy, but at times, receiving one can be awkward—especially if we consider ourselves unworthy or if receiving it makes us feel we owe someone a debt. However, one priceless gift is essential for life and should be received without hesitation. We’ll explore it today as Dr. Stanley preaches about the nature of God’s love.
Key Passage: 1 John 4:16-21
Supporting Passages: Jeremiah 31:3; John 14:1-3; Romans 8:28; Romans 8:35-39; Ephesians 3:17-20; James 1:17
The greatest gift God has to offer us—His love—is one we probably have the most difficulty receiving. Why is it so hard for us?
We think we don’t deserve it.
We don’t understand His love.
God’s love is agape (sacrificial). This love requires a commitment to the satisfaction, security, and development of another person.
► “Perfect love is the only kind of love God knows. And that means He's always going to treat me exactly right.”
God’s love is …
A gift (James 1:17).
It does not have to be earned.
It has no fine print or footnotes.
It requires nothing in return.
Perfect.
Since God is without fault, everything He does is done flawlessly.
His love cannot be improved.
We’re incapable of perfect love because we are still in the flesh.
Everlasting (Jer. 31:3).
Nothing can interfere with or separate us from God’s love (Rom. 8:35-39).
It is unlimited and unchanging.
It is based on Him, not us or our behavior.
Unconditional.
His love can’t be earned. Receiving it requires nothing on our part.
It is based on His nature.
► “Sacrificial love says, ‘I’m willing to put my desires aside in order to help meet your need.’”
Sacrificial.
When referring to God’s love, the New Testament mainly uses some form of the word agape.
God’s love cost Him something—the sacrifice of His Son.
Immeasurable.
God’s love has neither beginning nor end. (Eph. 3:17-20).
It is inexhaustible, infinite, and fathomless.
► “The connection between the fall of man and God’s love is freedom.”
God expresses His love to us by …
Giving us freedom to choose.
In the garden of Eden, this resulted in the fall.
Forgiving our sin.
God’s greatest expression of love is the cross.
Providing the Holy Spirit.
Knowing we would need the Comforter, God gifted Him to us.
Working all things for our good.
He works for our benefit in everything (Rom. 8:28).
Preparing heaven for us.
Jesus has assured us of our eternal home (John 14:1-3).
Always being present with us.
No matter where we are, God is with us.
After Watching
Of the six divine love characteristics discussed today, which is the most comforting to you right now? Which is the most mystifying? Why do you think that is?
Have you ever found yourself doing something to “earn” God’s love? What would it look like to simply rest in His love and enjoy being His child?
